Coming Together in A Relationship

We have all experienced a beautiful and loving relationship in our lives. Some of us have had the pleasure of a eternal and soulful relationship while for others it is different. Relationships are powerful,sublime and eternal. It is coming together of souls with their own values , opinions, experiences, expectations, desires and to be together forever and always.

Today I want to look at how we can come together, create a beautiful and soulful relationship despite the differences between the two souls. When one soul connects with the other and they both look into each others eyes they feel vibrations of great energy, joy and the world becomes a magical place. What has actually happened in this case is that both people have connected to their own inner being as when they look at each other with love they see themselves in the other.

The initial meeting and getting to know each other is exciting and the world appears to be spinning on its axis with love and excitement.The garden of love is full of magical moments ,joy and exhilaration .It feels the night sky which is full of bright twinkling stars are now at your feet because your lover has given you all that you always wanted and dreamt of. Both of you are extremely happy and are doing the dance of joy. Life is absolutely exhilarating and full of love and fun.

So what happens to this magic, to this love,with time? One of the key things to look at is that ,both are different people and at times we see the same thing from a different stand point. Differences in a relationship is not a bad thing at all.In fact it is good have differences as this brings the two together with understanding,healthy boundaries and mutual respect. It is important to discuss the matter with differing opinions and not shut it out . It makes sense to keep the communication line clear and open.By softening up and listening with an open mind

the respect and love is strengthened and it gains momentum. It also bring the two together

with love , understanding and appreciation.It is critical to be mindful of each others expectations and desires.

Most of the time it is very easy to come to a resolution and the focal point is to be open. Sometimes it is natural to resist and have it your way, or you may have had a tough day and had jumped into the bushes, down the beaten path and this one issue has got you tied in knots. Take a deep breath and relax, let go of the resistance and if need be, go back to the moment and recall how your relationship was initially,full of love, romance, beautiful conversations, promises ,healthy boundaries and a promise to be together forever.

Now focus on the issue and take your time to come to a resolution. Love is very powerful and there is nothing that love cannot overcome. It is the mutual understanding, respect, open communication and healthy boundaries that help with your happily ever after.

Love

Janey